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Pillow talk.

05/01

Our move to California happened faster than planned, leaving us about two weeks to find a house. And not just any house, but one that had space for a photography studio.

And a baby grand piano.

I don’t play the piano very well — certainly not well enough to justify owning one, let alone moving it 400 miles — but mine was a gift from my parents and playing it is one of my favorite forms of stress relief.

So I was thrilled when, during the final hours of our house-hunting trip, we found a place with a small front room that would accommodate a piano and not much else. But since we also loved the idea of a combination music room/library, we were determined to squeeze in a few of our books and something comfortable to sit on, too.

I knew we could repurpose some existing bookshelves — handmade by my dear friend Kim’s father — but the seating was a challenge. There was no way to fit a couch or loveseat; even our existing leather club chair was too bulky for the space.

While the boxy style and cherry red of this Pottery Barn leather slipper chair was not exactly on my dream furniture wish list, its low profile and no arms meant we could fit two in the tight space:

Although PB no longer sells the chairs, my husband found a brown pair on Craigslist, just a few miles from our house. They were comfortable, in perfect condition, and a steal — plus we figured if we ever move or get sick of them we could re-sell.

But after living with the chairs a couple weeks, it became clear that something was needed to break up the bo-ring brown:

But what? Here’s the blow by blow…

First, a Simple Decorating Tip: I hate shopping. And I hate returning even more. So one trick I’ve learned over the years for solving a decorating challenge is to first try what I have on hand. I once covered a pillow with a yellow sweater when I wanted to try out the color and didn’t have anything else that hue. I’ve hung sheets and tablecloths from curtain rods to test light vs. dark before investing in curtains, and used ribbon and double-stick tape to try out stripes on a lampshade.

So for the piano room, I started by adding a throw that normally just hangs out in a basket in our family room. It helped soften the look (and is great for snuggling up with a book), but it was still pretty much a visual yawn-fest.

I knew that pillows could add texture and dimension, but they also had to be comfortable and functional. Leather is a slick surface to begin with, and the slipper chair style required something that would stay put without resorting to Velcro.

So again, rather than heading to the store, I gathered every decorative pillow in my house to help narrow my options:

First up, chartreuse linen lumbar pillows from the guest bedroom. I actually liked the jolt of color and the rectangular shape, but at 10″ x 16″, they were too small and kept sliding off.

Next I tried the orange cotton pillows from my office (similar here). Although I liked it more than expected (even with the red), I ultimately wanted something more soothing. Plus, my husband is not a big fan of orange.

Brown velvet from the master bedroom. Right shape, and I’m always a sucker for a monochromatic look, but even I agree this was too much brown.

I love what a small dose of animal print can do for a room and these West Elm zebra pillows (also from my office), might have worked had they been rectangular instead of square. But they were still too big — I knew they’d end up on the floor every time we sat down.

Same goes for these black-and-white striped pillows from Pottery Barn (similar to their outdoor version here) — the graphic punch was great but they were too big for the chairs.

Nope, they don’t work horizontally, either.

Then I stumbled upon these lumbar cushions at IKEA. They’re the perfect size for the chairs and rather than slipping off, they conform to your lower back when you’re sitting down. Form + function FTW!

First I tried the red.

But since the red rug already dominates the tiny space, I ultimately preferred the more neutral black and tan stripe. They help lighten up the chairs and tie in the bookcase color without competing with the other elements in the room.

The final result:

I added a bit of color by swapping out the tan throw with a more colorful chartreuse one — I promise it looks better in person.

Update: Just caught the tail end of Along Came Polly on TV. This quote from Ben Stiller’s character struck me as a fitting way to end this post (at least in the global scheme of things):

“Oh and by the way, I threw away all your little throw pillows. Yeah, ’cause throw pillows suck. They serve no purpose. They’re purely decorative.”

Well, HALLO there.

04/30

As a 20+-year veteran IKEA shopper, my top tip for sanity preservation is this: always start at the checkout area and work your way back. I haven’t been upstairs in an IKEA in ages.

This backward route means I pass the garden area twice, so a couple months ago I got lucky and spotted these $5.99 striped HÅLLÖ pillows:I’d been looking for some lumbar cushions for the leather slipper chairs we scored on Craigslist, and although I really liked this $40 French Stripe pillow at Pottery Barn, it was too big.

The HÅLLÖ pillows were the perfect size – roughly 24″ long by 12″ wide — so I picked up two in the black and tan ticking stripe. (The fabric is 100% cotton and surprisingly hefty for the price.)

The pillows come with foam inserts but since I would be using them indoors, I wanted feather or down. The closest match at IKEA is the $6.99 FJÄDRAR cushion insert — same length but 4” wider. It fits inside the zippered cover just fine with a bit of coaxing and massaging (think Spanx — but for pillows). If you’re picky, several online sources stock 12″ x 24″ inserts including Amazon.com ($11 each) and Pottery Barn ($20 each).

Total cost for two pillows plus two inserts: $26 (versus $80 for the PB version).

Here’s what it looks like on the chair:

When I went back to IKEA to pick up two more pillows for our outdoor lounge chairs, they were sold out and the cashier said they wouldn’t be getting any more.

Lucky for me she was wrong — when I tried again last week, HÅLLÖ was back. So if you want ‘em, don’t wait. (The pillows come packed flat but puff up as soon as you remove the plastic.)

Next up: picking pillows, a trial and error story.

Teacher gifts that won’t get tossed.

04/24

If Pinterest trends are any indication, teacher-gift season is almost here. And with it the challenge of finding a budget-friendly idea that adequately conveys thankfulness and saves face in the implied creativity competition. (If you’ve ever had a child in elementary school, you know what I’m talking about.)

Although my son just finished his first year of college, I spent a lot of time over the years volunteering at his school. I got to know many teachers and witnessed firsthand the demands of their job and the sacrifices they make for our kids.

Fact: Teachers absolutely deserve our gratitude.

But I also learned the hard way that sometimes the best way to thank them is by keeping it simple.

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A fond farewell…

03/13

… to an Arizona house. My boy started kindergarten and graduated from high school here. Walls painted, then painted over. Fences stuccoed, curtains hung, pool built, gardens planted. Many memories — most wonderful, a few best forgotten.

I love living in California, but I miss this house and, most of all, the incredible people we met while living here.

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Back to basics.

03/12

I started this blog as a way to document my quest to revise, improve and simplify my life to focus on what’s most important.

A lot has changed since then. My only child started college 700 miles away. I sold my home of nearly 14 years. My husband and I moved from Arizona to Southern California.

But as I pause to catch my breath, I realize the words I initially chose as filters for editing my life — revise, improve, simplify — have not changed. In fact, they’ve helped guide and ground me during particularly stressful times. Read more…

[Not So] Traditional Swedish Butter Cookies

12/19

All Images Credit: Christopher Halloran Photography (c) 2011

I was recently invited to a cookie exchange — my first. The party sounded like fun, but I was completely stumped by what to make.

Let’s face it, everyone knows cookie exchanges are basically beauty contests for baked goods, and even though this one wouldn’t involve judges or prizes (thank heavens!), I didn’t want to be the one bearing the ‘platter of shame.’ Read more…

Edited Entry: Painting Door Hardware

07/28

As is the plight of many homes in Arizona, the street view of our house is dominated by a three-car garage. Blech.

Our lipstick-on-a-pig solution was to paint it a solid color and attempt to dress it up with modern mission-inspired light fixtures and windows. But since the garage still makes up nearly half the facade, the front entrance needs to be a standout to get noticed at all.

While cleaning up the aftermath of a recent haboob (which is way more fun to say than it is to experience), I realized our entry was standing out — just not in the way I’d hoped.

Our front door is looking tired and neglected, the welcome mat is not welcoming anyone, and the weathered bench is barely holding it together.

Time to spruce it up — starting with the door hardware.

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Favorite Summer Dessert: Fresh Fruit Tart

07/23

Image ©2011 Christopher Halloran Photography

My Aunt Stewart was a born hostess. She made entertaining seem effortless — a trait she passed along to her children. My siblings and I have fond memories of her huge holiday shindigs where she welcomed with open arms every friend and family member who happened to be in town.

She had a quick wit, a deep, throaty laugh, and a classic, honeyed Southern drawl. She took a genuine interest in people and had a knack for making them feel unique and loved.

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Non-traditional life list.

06/27


Most of the time I love my job as a freelance writer – the freedom to work from home, the flexibility to set my own hours, the variety of projects, the great clients.

Problem is, all that freedom and flexibility means my business — and busy-ness – can fluctuate wildly so when work comes in I tend to take it.

Perhaps that explains why I took on nine major new client projects last month.

But, like a bad infomercial, that’s not all!

In the same time span, my only child graduated from high school, I hosted house guests for 15 days, and I dealt with the deaths of three people I loved. Between funerals and commencement ceremonies, there were times I wasn’t sure I would get through it.

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DIY 100-Calorie Packs

04/20

Image © 2011 Christopher Halloran Photography

About four years ago I did a stint at Weight Watchers. What I liked about the program was that it worked – it forced me to think about every single thing I put in my mouth and I dropped the weight in about three months.

What I didn’t like so much was attending the weekly weigh-in meetings. They were long. They were rah rah. And they mostly seemed to be about hawking goods or services rather than providing genuinely useful suggestions.

Somewhat ironically, nearly every meeting would end with a free sample and coupon for some new diet snack.

Since this was the beginning of the 100-calorie pack phenomenon, they were frequently the snack sample du jour. Most of them tasted fine — I even bought a couple boxes — but I didn’t like getting so little for my money, even with a coupon.

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